How to Become a Great Lover

How to Become a Great Lover

Love is a beautiful relationship. It has to be maintained very carefully to maintain the beauty of the relationship. A perfect lover is one who is good when the couple is in public and great when the two are only amongst themselves. He has to be a great lover not only in their daily routine but also in bed.

There is a very fine line between sex and love making. Becoming a good lover is more than having good carnal relations with someone, but also something much more deeply penetrating, love at one of its most intimate moments. Enjoying that intimate moment with your partner and making the best of it is a sign of a great lover. If you too wish to be a great lover the tips given by our PUA expert will help you do so.

Know the likes and (many times dislikes being more important) the dislikes of your partner. Learning likes and dislikes goes further than just in bed. Even when you are intentionally stepping outside of normal bedside manner, don't go outside of what you know for sure someone would accept or is comfortable with.

Accept criticism sportingly and ask her if she is satisfied. Try to find out your partner likes or dislikes about you. Either you question her directly or try to find out yourself by experimenting and exploring. Try not to get upset with the things you may learn as they are only telling you because they trust and love you.

Innovation and surprise when pleasant is always enjoyed. How about giving her a gift exactly when you undress her. Imagine you undress her, she would just expect that next would be you getting close to her and at that time you place a necklace around her neck or a ring on her finger. Try something new, be spontaneous, and stay away from hum-drum. Tricky as it may be sometimes to walk this line, you must balance between acceptable and exciting.

Surprising her is not a bad idea but giving her an idea of a surprise will add to her excitement. Set the tone of the session. Preparing is a good way to set the tone, besides lights and music or whatever takes your fancy, you may also do it with body language. Speaking through your actions is more than speaking through words. Making her understand your intentions via your eyes or actions will set the mood and make her more playful.

Incorporate as many of the five senses as possible. Too many times we focus on touch when a deeply moving experience involves more. Explore and create, as there is a world of possibilities waiting for you to discover with your lover.

Innovation and change is acceptable but remember that she loves you for what you are. While trying to be cool or imitating do not lose your identity. Enjoy to the fullest and prove that you are the greatest lover in the world.

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